Colour of a woman named RERE

—  KNOWING ME,  KNOWING YOU —

no
more carefree laughter
silence ever after
walking through an empty house
tears in my eyes
here is where the story ends
this is goodbye

knowing me, knowing you
there is nothing we can do
knowing me, knowing you
we just have to face it
this time we’re through
breaking up is never easy I know
but I have to go
knowing me, knowing you
it’s the best I can do

memories, good days, bad days
they’ll be with me always
in these old familiar rooms
children would play
now there’s only emptiness
nothing to say

knowing me, knowing you
there is nothing we can do
knowing me, knowing you
we just have to face it
this time we’re through
breaking up is never easy I know
but I have to go
knowing me, knowing you
it’s the best I can do

song  & lyric : ABBA

The more you ignore me
The closer I get
You’re wasting your time

The more you ignore me
The closer I get
You’re wasting your time

I will be
In the bar
With my head
On the bar

I am now A central part
Of your mind’s landscape
Whether you care Or do not
I’ve made up your mind

Beware !
I bear more grudges
than lonely high court judges

When you sleep
I will creep
Into your thoughts
Like a bad debt
That you can’t pay

Take the easy way
And give in
Yeah, and let me in

Ah, you’re asking for it
Ah, the closer I get

—–from  Hand, thanks yaaa…
oh ya…ur old request will be coming soon.
…klo sudah lupa, kebeneran tuh..hihihi … hahahaha

*also thanks to someone who miss me so bad
(hahahahaha….)
for this scratch :

Knowing a person like you, has made me happy in a million
ways,
And if ever I have to let u go, I would find a million reasons to make u stay.

I miss you so bad

* I miss U too, dear…
i just want u to know ‘You are special to me’
believe or not…
but
better not coz not better….hahaha…gotcha!!

————  HAVE REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS

people who are HAPPY, DON’T GET everything they want
but they want MOST of what they get.

they rig the game in their favor by CHOOSING
to value THINGS that are within their grasp.
Not begin with FANTASY PICTURES of the world’s richest person

Let me say this to you
STAY with REALITY and strive to make things better,
NOT PERFECT.

You are, just like everyone else,
an almost inconceivably complicated mix of abilities and limitations
You don’t have to win every time, in every aspects of life.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO… WHO’S PERFECT TO DO, anyway?
NONE.

You are you. Just you are.
and I believe YOUR LIFE HAS PURPOSE AND MEANING.
Yes I do believe
at least, to share your love, your lifetime,
your energies, your sukma
with me.

-——————
*I LOVE U  (as long as, as deep as)  YOU LOVE ME
what kind of love is this?
do you think it  is a realistic one?  :))

copy from bulbo, posted by  RERE :
SORRY YEEE….KLO GW lagi SOK BELAGU gini yeee…HAHAHA..
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INTERNET?? YM??? CHATTING???
Ehmmm it’s really FUN and USEFUL.
but also can be BOOMERANGS!!!

 
INTERNET buat gw…
mungkin selaras  apa yg dipikirkan bbrp
temen/kenalan gw
(kebetulan saja mrk orang IT )…bhw INTERNET bisa dikatakan
bagaikan
PISAU BERMATA DUA…Bisa Positif/bisa negatif…
Jadi bergantung BAGAIMANA CARA MENGGUNAKANNYA..
It depends on HOW SMART THE WAY we use internet media …

 
Jadi sekali meski kita dimanjakan oleh kemurahan dan

kemudahan teknologi internet, khususnya dalam  PERGAULAN….
Sebaiknya TETAPLAH kita SADAR DIRI, di DUNIA MANA kita
sedang bermain-main…Dunia NYATA atau
dunia VIRTUAL…
hei TOK!! TOK !! TOK!!…Helooooo????

Dan kalau bisa gw sebut, di pergaulan semacam Internet ini…
juga menyisakan tumpukan sampah-sampah
TEKNOLOGI….
kotor dan bau …alias SAMPAH-SAMPAH INTERNET….Hahahaha…
yaitu aneka
rayuan gombal, segala macam trik tipu menipu,
aneka jenis aktor dan aktris PRETENDER
dan trik-trik lainnya.

 
Sekali lagi….
ADA BAIKNYA WASPADA dan HATI-HATI dalam
berinternet ria..
Kita BOLEH saja memasukinya, …bahkan bisa jadi menjadi
suatu  keharusan di jaman skrg…hari genehh
gaptekk??? hihihi…
namun JANGAN sampai kita TERSESAT di sana
apalagi MENGHILANG di dalamnya…wahh
still better kita hidup dalam dunia nyata
aja deh…
…REALISTIS!!
Sadarilah bahwa Internet hanyalah sebuah MEDIA,
sebuah SARANA PEMBANTU belaka bagi
eksistensi kita dalam
berbagai  bidang
yang kita tekuni selama ini.

 
Dan gw ingin berbagi cerita sedikit tentang SAMPAH
INTERNET..
Seorang sohib gw, YESSY HARYANDA pernah mengalami kejadian
PEMALSUAN
DIRI-NYA….dan tanpa banyak komentar,
KITA PASTI BISA MENERKA apa MOTIVASI
pemalsuan diri Echi itu
…setuju???…Hahahaha..

 
dear ECHI, dear ARNA…
THANKS ya Cantikks…atas info-info/masukan selama ini…
Insyaallah,
just like always, gw bakal bawel di bulbo ini..hehehe
Smg SISTEM seperti yg kita lakukan selama ini
(SALING
BERBAGI INFO antar para emak-emak…hahahaa)…
paling tidak memberi masukan berharga bagi
temen2 kita yang lain…
sekali lagi THANKS, babes!

 
Dan ini copy message YESSY :
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Wednesday, 15
November, 2006 3: 4 AM
Subject:
TEMAN2KU HATI2 ama PROFILE PALSUKU YA..!!
Message:
Iya……Arna..emang ada yg malsuin profile aku
namanya LALA
KUSUMAH gitu
…pake sluruh foto2 aku pula…gilaa deh..

 JADI SKALIAN D BUAT TEMEN2 AKU..ATI2 AJA YA..
YESSI HARYANDA YANG INI MSH ADA..LOH
LALA KUSUMAH is a BIG LYER..
KASIIAN BANGET TUH ORANG…GAK PEDE AMA DIRI SNDRI…

 C..u..ALL
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Original message from ‘Arna’:
> Dear Mbak Eciiiiiiiiii
> Apa kabar nih???
> Eh…emangnya ada yang iseng ngerjain mbak Eci ya?

> Mau cerita nih…
> Beberapa bulan yang lalu, arna tuh pernah dapet offline
YM 
dari orang yang namanya "Lala
Damayanti",
trus karena ngerasa gak kenal, arna liat profile-nya di YM…
nah ternyata koq fotonya Mbak Eci (pake baju
"you can see"
warna beigi/coklat muda)

> Trus arna YM balik tuh orang, "Mbak Yessi ya?

Eh…dia jawab  "Iya"…
trus ngilang…(Ini kejadiannya hari Sabtu).

> Nah….yang itu Mbak Eci beneran atau yang palsu tuh???

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 Dear all…siapa pun kita adanya…
di dalam dunia internet/khususnya unt ajang pergaulan
semacam FS, HI-5, Yahoo
360, MySPACE…dan lain2…
SIAPA YANG BISA MENJAGA KITA…SELAIN DIRI KITA
SENDIRI
….betul gak?

 
oh ya khsusus di FS,
ada catatan khusus dari gw  nih :
…Itu ada bbrp tmn gw yang BOLAK-BALIK GANTI NAMA/ID…
dan tanpa
pemberitahuan
(apalagi ke gw yang bawel ini..hahahaha)
(eeh tapi etika/rulesnya
mungkin memang gak perlu ya? Tauk ah!)

tapi menyisakan pertanyaan….
sebenernya MAKSUD KALIAN APA SEHH??

GILAKK DEHH…sampe gw GAK KENAL LAGI…elu tuh siapa
dulunya.
Sumpritttt….gw mpe harus mikir2 dulu..
…eeh ini siapa-siapa kalian tuh DULUnya
Ediaaan…hahaha…..Masak siih gw harus persulit diri gw
dengan BERUSAHA
KERNYITIN JIDAT
buat nginget2 elu itu SIAPA dulunya…
Payahhh deh luuh…mana ada yang ganti berkali-kali lage.

So to the point aja…
NO HARD FEELING yaa…kalo misal pas gak mood
/lagi
angot/lagi gak waras hahaha…
lalu gw sambil merem mendelete kalian ya…
Meski pun  kalian tuh
asli temen gw deh …
DULUUUUUU-nyaa….but sadly 
I dont know you anymore…SORRY!!

 
Buat temen2 yg minta no HP gw (thanks ya) dan
hingga kini gw
tdk/blm bs berikan…SORRY BANGET YAA!!..
dan jika karena itu, lalu kalian anggap GW SOK BELAGU,

SOMBONG BANGETTT, atau SOK TERLALU HATI-HATI…
Silakan saja lah…terserah anggapan kalian,
toh semua gak ngaruh buat gw.

 
BIARLAH WAKTU yang BAKAL MENGINGATKAN
dan MENYADARKAN  GW  bahwa kalian adalah benar
TEMAN SEJATI gw yg
bisa diandalkan sbg teman,
hingga kalian bisa memiliki no hape aku…
karena
kalian sudah buktikan itu… Sabar yaaa..
Sorryyyyy yeeeeeeeee…lagi2 gw belagu nih yeee!!
HAHAHAHAHAHA..

Akhirnya….THANKS for all of you!
salam sayang buat kalian semua yang ada di list RERE
sekali
lagi maafin gw jika gw kadang seenaknya aja gini yaaa…

RERE

As you reach out for success, the most important asset
you can have is a winner’s attitude.
In the game of life, there are always more losers than
there are winners.
In bussiness and in human services, there are also a few
winners, but many ‘also runs’.
So how to see the differences between both attitudes?

WINNER make their goals, LOSERS make excuses!

Winners :  Always have an idea
                Always say ‘ I’ll do it’
                See an answer for every problem
                Always say ‘ I can ‘
                Look for a way to do it

Losers    :  Always have an excuse
                Always say " It’s not  my job"
                See a problem for every answer
                Always say ‘ I can’t ‘
                Look for a way to get out of it

Almost always, attitude makes the difference.
Whether you think you can or can’t….you’ll usually  be right!.

It has much more to do with your attitude.

\RR, 2006